My name’s Emily Davison, otherwise known as Fashioneyesta. I’m a university graduate, writer, fashion and beauty blogger and YouTuber. I also happen to be visually impaired and work with a Guide Dog.
Every day I come across many misconceptions towards my disability and in turn I usually find myself in front of my camera or typing away at my laptop discussing these with my followers.
I was keen to take part in Scope’s End the Awkward campaign – to represent the sight loss community and to show that sight loss does not equate to ignorance, being un-fashionable or being stereotyped.
You can’t give my guide dog directions!
In my new film, you see me in an awkward situation around one of the most outlandish myths surrounding my guide dog – which is the common belief that people can give her directions instead of myself, and that she can follow them like a GPS system!
But, of course there are plenty more awkward moments where that one came from…
‘You’re well dressed for a blind person’
As a fashion blogger, comments I hear a lot are to do with my appearance. People will say ‘you don’t look blind!’ or ‘you’re very well dressed for a blind person.’
As if anyone with a visual impairment – simply because they lack sight – cannot have a conception of style, beauty or looking good, which is of course not true.
‘She’s blind and she’s wearing high heels!’
Another one I encounter on a regular basis is ‘Oh my god! She’s blind and she’s wearing high heels, how ridiculous!’ My answer to this is what does sight loss have to do with the clothes I wear? In what context do those two things relate?
I chose to take an interest in fashion because I enjoy the shopping process, I enjoy looking and feeling good and I happen to love wearing high-heeled shoes.
Awkward speed dating
Another time I went speed dating, and after talking to the person opposite me for a few minutes I got onto the subject of being visually impaired.
When I told him about my vision he sat back, blinked and said ‘Oh…Well what do you expect me do say to that?’ And the conversation came to an abrupt, very awkward end.
‘But you don’t look blind…’
On the bus one day I sat on one of the priority seats – those usually reserved for disabled people, elderly people or those with child.
But my guide dog was out of view and therefore to some I could appear to be a ‘normal person’ – a term I use very loosely.
An elderly gentlemen boarded the bus and said to me ‘Can you move please! These seats are for disabled people.’
It just so happened that my stop was next and so instead of staring a brawl I got up to expose my little four-legged friend, in all her guide dog splendour (neon harness).
There was a deadly silence…..He then responded ‘Oh god! No sit back down… it’s…it’s just…you don’t look blind!’
We all make mistakes
Awkwardness is something I experience in my everyday life, we all do, but disability shouldn’t be something to feel awkward about.
If you have ever felt awkward around disabled people – maybe you said something wrong or made someone feel embarrassed – the thing to do is simply apologise.
We all make mistakes in life and as long as we move forward and learn from them, this is what truly matters.